Posts tagged ‘life’

30 July 2008

The End of Productivity

Get things done. Be productive. Stop procrastinating. Get a handle on this ADD. Work, work, work.

I make lists and then don’t use them. I forget things if I don’t write them down. I’ve read books, watched tutorials, downloaded software, signed up for website services only never to use them consistently. Why?

What is it that I can’t get it together and love the 40+ hour work week? Could the root of this issue simply be that I procrastinate on things that I simply don’t want to do? So why is it that I continually strive to put myself into a mode that I’m clearly not cut out for?

Over at Zen Habits, a guest post from Clay Collins really nails it:

The direct route to productivity is being passionate about what you do. This observation, however, is largely an academic point that doesn’t do much to help the problem. Very few people hear that passion will make them productive and then-out of a dedication to productivity-immediately proceed to follow their dreams and become more productive. So, instead of talking about how passion will make you more productive, I’d like to re-frame the conversation by saying this: unwanted tasks are the the #1 cause of your productivity problems.

If you only did things you wanted to do, you’d probably be the most productive person in the world.

This is something that I’ve been thinking about quite a bit lately. I have all this guilt wrapped around productivity (or rather, the lack there of). When I get into a “zone”, not only do I get a lot done and very well, I’m happy. It’s not that I don’t like work. I love to create things. I like work. But it must be work that I have some connection too. For example, right now, instead of doing an audit of how a particular feature works on a specific website (what I’m supposed to be doing) I’m writing in this blog. Which one am I more interested in, I wonder?

Well, I’m trying something new. Living my day, moment by moment and analyzing what I am doing and why. Making conscious choices. Many people have things they’ve “got to do”. Well, why is that? “Because I don’t have a choice.” is something I often hear. I hear this from myself as well. We all have choices. And those choices have consequences. So is the statement not, “because I don’t have a choice” but  rather “because I don’t want to live with the consequences?” Or “because I’m afraid of the consequences if I don’t do X?”

So I’m challenging myself. And I’m challenging you. Do everything intentionally. Make choices. Live in the moment of that choice, don’t walk down the street sipping on your coffee talking on your phone and thinking about yet another thing. What are your surroundings like? Who is it that I’m talking too? What are they saying? How does that coffee taste? Pay attention to your life. Make your best effort to enjoy experience. Because no one really knows what happens when it’s over.

28 May 2008

New Poll in California Favors Same-Sex Marriage

The San Francisco Chronicle has an article about a new poll that says registered voters are now in favor of same-sex marriage:

By 51-42 percent, registered voters said they believed same-sex marriage should be legal in California. Only 28 percent favored gay marriage in 1977, when the Field Poll first asked that question, said Mark DiCamillo, the poll’s director.

There are a couple of things I’m cherry picking from the piece:

It’s a “generational replacement, with older folks being replaced by younger voters very much in favor of same-sex marriage,” DiCamillo said.

Those younger voters “have grown up with people who are out in their lives, whether it’s politicians in the news or people they know,” said Geoff Kors, executive director of Equality California, one of the groups opposed to the proposed initiative to ban same-sex marriage.

Among my circle of friends, we’ve been saying this for quite some time. It’s not really a nice thing to say, but it would appear to be true none the less. There will be less discrimination as the older generation (many, but not all, of whom have grown and lived with long indoctrinated prejudices) dies off and the more of the younger generation begins to make their voices heard with their votes.

And now for a voice from the opposition:

“The Supreme Court ruling only just happened,” said Karen England, spokeswoman for the Capitol Resource Institute, one of the groups backing a ban on same-sex marriage, which is expected to be approved for the ballot in mid-June. “Once we have the measure on the ballot, the campaign can change everything.

That would be her scrambling to spin this in their direction. “The Supreme Court ruling only just happened” – meaning it is now illegal to discriminate against someone based upon their sexual orientation in any way in California. The ruling was not just about marriage – it was about completely equal rights. And now these people want to continue to try to take away a right that has been recognized by the Court. These were not “activist judges” (if that term can even be applied to a judge, given the very nature of their job). These were people finally delivering justice to those of us who have been scorned, shunned and discriminated against.

Why is it not illegal to write discrimination into a constitution? Why is it not illegal to take away someone’s rights? What happened to justice and liberty for all?

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